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A birthday is a special holiday for every child. But is it so important to celebrate it, or can we do without celebrations? Let’s understand how the celebration affects the development of the baby and why this day is worth making memorable.
Why is a birthday important for a child?
1. A sense of significance
The child understands that this day is only his. Attention, gifts and congratulations strengthen self-esteem, give the feeling: ‘I am special’.
2. Tradition and stability
An annual holiday creates a sense of predictability, which is important for psychological comfort. Children love rituals – cake, candles, and guests are part of their ‘footing’ in the world.
3. Developing emotional intelligence
Preparing for the holiday, waiting, the joy of gifts and socialising teaches the child to express emotions, share impressions and give thanks.
4. Socialisation
Inviting friends, playing games and having fun together helps develop communication skills. Even a modest celebration with the family teaches interaction.
How do you celebrate a birthday if you can’t afford a big party?
Not everyone has the resources for a large-scale celebration, but even a mini-festivity will leave warm memories:
– A family dinner with your favourite dishes;
– A cake with candles and making a wish;
– A small but welcome gift;
– A themed day (a picnic, a trip to the cinema, a master class).
It’s the attention and the atmosphere of the celebration that counts, not the number of guests or the cost.
When is it not necessary to celebrate?
– If the child does not want to (some children are shy of attention).
– In difficult life circumstances (you can postpone or celebrate modestly).
But even in such cases, it is important to let the child understand that this day is special.
Conclusion
A birthday is not just a ‘calendar date’. It helps your child feel love, significance and joy. It is not necessary to organise a grandiose holiday – the main thing is to remember the day with warmth and care.
