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Being late to pick up your child at daycare is a situation that happens to many parents. Work, traffic jams, unexpected errands – there can be many reasons. But how does it affect the child and what consequences are possible?
What does the law say?
Usually gardens work until 18:00-19:00, but the exact hours are prescribed in the statute of the institution.
Possible consequences of lateness:
✔ Teachers are obliged to wait for parents – but their working day is not endless.
✔ The teacher may reprimand the parents – frequent tardiness is discussed with the head teacher.
✔ In extreme cases, a fine may be imposed – if tardiness is systematic, the day care centre may contact the care authorities.
How does lateness affect the child?
Children in the garden live according to a regime, and parents’ lateness can cause:
– Anxiety – the baby thinks he or she has been forgotten.
– Fear of abandonment (‘I am not loved’).
– Tiredness and crankiness – after a day in the garden, the child is waiting for mum or dad, not for the tutor on duty.
What to do if you are late?
1. Warn the tutor – call the garden, explain the situation.
2. Agree with relatives – let the grandmother or nanny pick up the child on time.
3. Find out about the ‘duty group’ – some kindergartens offer after-school care for a surcharge.
Conclusion
You should only be late as a last resort – but don’t make it a habit. It is important for the child to know that he is expected and loved. If delays are unavoidable, make arrangements with carers in advance or find an alternative.
